“Better small talk” by Patrick King

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The author 🖋

Patrick King is a social interaction specialist and bestselling author with numerous titles on topics such as conversation, confidence and charisma.

He’s also the host of the popular People People Podcast where he regularly shares his work on improving social interactions and building meaningful connections.

Key takeaways 🎓

1. Ask questions that make people talk

Go beyond the superficial "yes" or "no" questions to keep conversations flowing and engaging.

King encourages the use of open-ended questions that invite the other person to share their thoughts, feelings and experiences.

This makes the conversation more enjoyable for both parties and helps foster deeper and more meaningful connections.

2. Be a good listener

Active listening is crucial for good conversations.

When someone is talking to you, pay attention - look at them, nod your head and ask more questions to show that you care and value their thoughts.

It's like building a friendship brick by brick – the more you listen, the stronger it gets.

3. Share stories

What people remember best is a story.

So learn to tell a story well (focus on the emotions and lessons learned from the experience) and share your stories during conversations.

Personal stories also make you more interesting and human, more memorable and make others feel more connected to you.

Closing thoughts 🧠

I’ve personally always felt a little awkward with small talk and this book shows how we can make conversations more fun, deeper and enjoyable for everyone involved!

The author provides practical advice and techniques for improving conversational skills and navigating social situations which, at least to me, opens the door to building stronger relationships with new people.

That’s a wrap!

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- Monty

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